It turns out that the president is following me; I’m writing to you from Brooklyn, New York where I am staying for the annual Chabad conference next week and Mr. President is actually going to be driving to speak at a Crown Heights high school later today.
The president will be landing in Prospect Park in Brooklyn on Marine One and his motorcade will drive through Crown Heights to the school. Due to security precautions, Crown Heights has basically been locked down; since last night the streets have been cleared of parked cars and police barricades have been placed along all the sidewalks. Prospect Park will be closed for most of the afternoon as well.
It’s exciting to see the president’s motorcade and I think it would always be considered an honor to host the president for whatever reason he would decide to visit. What I find interesting is that everyone sees this from their personal perspective and can’t recognize the other side of the equation.
Shutting down many streets in a neighborhood and closing a popular park is certainly inconvenient for many but then again, it is necessary. So many people, though, can’t see that and instead they complain: He’s shutting down Prospect Park, now where will the people who use the park for exercise be able to go? And then there is the Jewish connection, the president will be here on a Friday afternoon just a few hours before Shabbat. The president is making it extremely difficult to get ready for Shabbat!
Here’s what’s interesting - everyone sees things from their point of view: How does it affect me?
This self-centered attitude is not usually a good thing; we need to recognize that there are others and that their desires, opinions and goals are of equal importance to ours. But there is one time when we should be self-centered and realize that it’s all about us: when we wonder whether our choice makes a difference.
The Mishnah states that one should consider as though the entire world was created for him. Not, G-d forbid, to allow their ego to run rampant, rather to ensure that one realizes the weight of their choices. It’s not just me and my choice – it’s me, my choice and why G-d created the entire world.
I had better make the right choice.